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°áÈ¥ »ýÈ°À» ¸Á°¡¶ß¸®°í(wreck your marriage) ÀÌÈ¥À¸·Î ÇâÇÏ´Â(head for divorce) ºÎºÎ¿¡°Ô ³ªÅ¸³ª´Â ³× °¡Áö ¡ÈÄ°¡ ÀÖ´Ù. ù°´Â »ó´ë¿¡ ´ëÇÑ °æ¸ê(contempt)ÀÌ´Ù. ÀÇ°ß ´ÙÅùÀÌ »ý°åÀ» ¶§ ºóÁ¤´ë´Â µíÇÑ ´«µ¿ÀÚ ¿òÁ÷ÀÓ°ú ¹ÝÀÀ(sarcastic eye-rolling and response)À» º¸À̸ç, ³Ã¼Ò¿Í Á¶·Õ(sneering and mockery)À» ³ë°ñÀûÀ¸·Î µå·¯³½´Ù(lay open bluntly).
µÑ°, ÀνŰø°Ý(personal attack)ÀÌ´Ù. ¹Ý´ë ÀÇ°ßÀ» ³»¼¼¿ì´Â Á¤µµ°¡ ¾Æ´Ï´Ù. "´ç½ÅÀº ´Ã ±×·¸°Ô Â¥Áõ ³ª´Â(get on my nerves) ¼Ò¸®¸¸ ÇÑ´Ù" "´ç½ÅÀº ¿Ö Ç㱸ÇÑ ³¯(day in day out) ±× ¸ð¾çÀ̳Ä"¸ç ¼º°ÝÀ̳ª ÀΰÝÀ» ½ÎÀâ¾Æ ºÎÁ¤ÀûÀÎ ¸»À» ³»¹ñ´Â´Ù(make sweeping negative statements about the partner's character or personality).
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